I kinda remember the INFP (or at least the argument, being too afraid to take a side, and your defense to being told you were “too harsh”), and I kinda think I remember someone leaving around that time – but that’s about it. Maybe I just subconsciously chose to ignore it or something?
I actually do remember seeing the title of the thread before on google, right under the main site’s page – though I tend to just ignore it. Maybe I should take a look at it. I’ve got a hunch that a certain ENFP might be one of the other two posters, but more directly, I’m kinda curious to see what arguments they have for this being a scam (because fulfilling a contract or providing a refund along with not charging money to get into anything is clearly one of the red flags for scams, right?).

Also, yes of COURSE the government is listening in. They’re microscopic drones with small cameras, but you can only see them when you’re in the right mindset. On an unrelated note, have I mentioned how good corn flakes taste when you mix in amphetamines? It’s fantastic!

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Aww! ? *heart breaks into a million pieces* I didn’t know you were worried about that! No, that is absolutely not why I’ve often handed the phone or even the FB messenger off to Justin. That one time you and I talked on the phone was awesome! Honestly it’s the different mediums’ faults, not yours. Phones really terrify me and I don’t know what it is that scares me about private FB messages, but seriously I’ll check public stuff all the time and then my messages will just sit because I’m really nervous about them. I don’t know why it feels different to me than just email or whatever. And you and Justin always talk about great stuff, so I think I’m just like ✔️”yup that’s probably good.” I like to listen as Justin talks to people, so even with his family members and stuff, that’s usually what happens: he’ll talk and I’ll make comments from his half and what I can hear out of the receiver up to his ear.

If anything, “shy” is a more apt description of how I tend to feel before I feel super relaxed in a back-and-forth conversation with someone (as much as that might surprise some people) and I get really nervous about what to say especially if the convo goes back and forth a lot of times. Like I make Justin read pretty much every text I send ?.

And hilariously most the guys I had crushes on growing up were ESTP lol. I was pretty obsessed with Tom Cruise around 14-15, and all the guys I had things for in person, for the most part, were ESTP too. And the boyfriend I had just before Justin was ESTP too! lol He was the one who introduced us and I still think he’s awesome. I think as far as romantically, it was good I found someone more different from my own type so that we balance each other out a little more evenly, because with the ESTP I dated we were a *lot* of ETP together, lol which was a ton of fun. But so, even though that makes sense that you were concerned about, no I super love ESTPs in general as well as yours 😉 <3

I'm super happy and honored you're my friend and I really am sooooo sorry you were worried that wasn't true ? I will attempt to overcome my nervousness in the future to show you better! *hug*

Good job.

That’s not a judgment in any way. I just wasn’t expecting it.

There’s no way I could keep from reading that “scam” thread if it was about me.

It was good to hear more about your side of the early days turmoil between us. I was actually just thinking about that earlier this week. We just moved to a bigger place (and twice the rent!) and it takes 2.5 times as long to walk to work now, so I have more time to think about random things. To be honest, I’ve had this stupid occasional idea that you don’t really like me. This idea is supported by several different factors (and probably conveniently forgetting the opposing factors). The first was the “bad cop” part, how those always came from you. Also, after the first harsh post, Justin was chosen to talk to me when I reached out. That made sense based on what had just happened, but from what I can remember, every time after that I always talked to Justin. That’s nothing conclusive by any means, but the coincidence just stood out to me. Entertaining negative scenarios like I like to do, I imagined every time I reached out, it was, “Oh, it’s Idec. Can you talk to him, Justin?” In addition to all this, I remember hearing (probably from Justin) that you had a few ESTP guys in your past that were unhealthy relationships for you. With you finally choosing an INFJ, opposite letters, an assumption could be made that, at least subconsciously, you were distancing yourself from that type, at least the males. Maybe I even reminded you of them.

All of that seems pretty paranoid and it was never something that I believed very strongly. Just a thought that occasionally would pop up. When I read this post and it was clear it was written by you, it was a relief to hear your thoughts and feelings on the subject of me. Yeah, I’m pretty silly.